What IS wrong with Gaming Journalism?

Dec. 25th, 2025 10:45 am
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Shit, I can’t be the only doofus to fuckin’ ask this question, right? God knows I’ve asked it many times, but y’see, I’m in a peculiar position. Carryin’ a pair of tits will do that to ya, couple that with an innate rebellious attitude and a love for retro games ‘cause of economic status and y’got yourself a recipe to make most American gamers whinge — even the nerds that permeate some of the retro space may have a problem with me, and we’re supposed to be more or less the same team!

What can I say? I’m too cool to be a nerd but too nerdy to be cool. Such is my long-standing curse, but that isn’t the end of it.

On top of all of it, I’m also a punk. Even though I no longer partake in the community (‘cause I have none) and distance myself from bein’ exclusively in that space, I got the political and social wisdom it imparted on me. Wisdom bein’, everythin’ fucking sucks but y’can always help your community ‘round you to make a change. Also, you can’t put Avril Lavigne in your fuckin’ crust pants, that’s not a crust band to put on yer crust PANT. My sensibilities and ability to call BULLSHIT have made me look deeper beyond the mainstream assumption that Gaming Journalism is just bad.

Sure, I can betcha is flawed like most other fuckin’ things in the world, but why is it BAD exactly? This question won’t be answered in this blog post, I’m postin’ the question for all the curious eyes scopin’ out my site, but I like givin’ extra context to why I’m askin’. Y’see, I can’t help but to notice that everytime someone says this to me it comes from a source I don’t trust. My brother says Gaming Journos are bad? I remember that he loves Asmongold and genuinely believes white racism is a thing. Twitter user Buttnuttgooner1488 tells me Gaming Journos are woke, damaging to the industry and shit? Well the symbolism in his frontpage aren’t exactly friendly, are they?

I realize this may be ‘cause I’m biased…. well D’UH, y’fuckin’ donut. What d’ya think? I’m not takin’ or hearin’ any gospel spoken outta the moufs of dimwits who have “PRINCIPLES” teeterin’ on the edge of danger fascist rhetoric – and you’ve gotta be a moron to take what they say with no pinch of salt. Half the time the criticizing ‘bout gaming journo ends up fallin’ down the anti-woke/sjw pipeline and delusional dreams ‘bout how the gaming community has always been acceptin’ of women and queer gamers (they don’t even touch the topic of racism ‘cause that would be havin’ to pull lotsa fucking weird tricks from under their sleeves).

I’m not askin’ for a “neutral” account and analysis. That’s another fuckin’ problem, the so-called CENTRISTS’ are just gutless gonzos who can never make a decision in their lives (and comin’ from a versatile bisexual? that’s a BURN) or signal their allegiance to anyone ‘cause they’re coward frumpwusses who rely on the inaction to survive. Y’don’t want me to listen to your bullshit either, I’m gonna call it right out.

I’m lookin’ for critiques within my own pond, frankly. That’s why I point it out. Half the time we’ve got biases, I can easily identify ‘em. Some other times — dependin’ on who’s saying shit — I can trust that someone’s bein’ fair on the topic and it’s not some secret agenda to push ya into an alt-right discord to slowly get you brainwashed. I need an actual point.

So, I guess that’s the question to wrap up this unwarranted rant.

What IS wrong with Gaming Journalism? Is it a similar issue with Journalism as a whole? Are people just whinin’ that their super special niche has branched out into the mainstream and how — like many other mediums — has got a few hands stirrin’ the pot now?

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Dec. 25th, 2025 05:12 pm
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Hung out with my friend Nikki today! We met for the first time at a get-together for polerinas that my instructor put together. And we were comfortable with each other right away. Today, she had the day off for Christmas. We had lunch at a cafe, a hummus platter and a vegan banana walnut cake. She has similar gut issues as I do so we enjoy ordering food together; neither of us feels like we're making the other person miss out on something else they'd rather eat.

Afterwards, we went to the library. I finished reading the book I'd borrowed, and she browsed for a while before picking out a pile of books and then flipping through them to decide what she wanted to borrow. I borrowed Butter by Asako Yuzuki, and it's the specific edition that I'd been eyeing in Shelfish ever since I worked there and wasn't allowed to read the books. (You know, when you're not allowed to do something you want to doubly do it.) Is the fact that the library had it a Sign? Anything's a sign if you want to give it significance. I'm healing, so it's a Sign.

Nikki had wanted to go to Spinebreaker or Shelfish initially. I told her that both places had traumatised me and that it was a long story. She thought I was joking at first, but I didn't want to go into the whole history of both places and why I wasn't welcome at either. I told her that it was awkward telling people that I was traumatised by bookstores because, when I tell them I was traumatised by school for instance, they instinctively understand, but when I say I was traumatised by bookstores, they think I must be joking.

The part I didn't tell her is that when people react like this, it feels like they're laughing at what I experienced or trivialising my hurt, even though they mostly don't know enough to react aptly in the first place. It's just such a difficult thing to talk to people about that I wish it never came up in the first place. The emotional labour of explaining it and making them understand the impact it had on me just sucks, as a process. For a while, I've been thinking that they can't understand me as a person without knowing this about me, but maybe this isn't as big a part of my self as all that. At one point it defined everything about the way I was, but thankfully that time is behind me. As the heroine of the manhwa Not Your Typical Reincarnation Story says, people heal with time and people are more resilient than they think.

jade discography rate

Dec. 2nd, 2025 04:59 pm
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last updated: december 2025

that's showbiz baby! (2025, album) 5/5
• angel of my dreams 5
• it girl 5
• fufn (fuck you for now) 5
• plastic box 5
• midnight cowboy 5
• fantasy 4.5
• unconditional 5
• self saboteur 4.5
• lip service 4.5
• headache 5
• natural at disaster 5
• glitch 4.5
• before you break my heart 5
• silent disco 5

bonus tracks
• church 4
• this is what we dance for 4.5
• dreamcheater 4
• best you could 4
• use me 4.5
• frozen (madonna cover) 4.5
• if my heart was a house 4.5
• tar 4


 
covers & remakes
• backbone (stormzy cover) (2024) 4/5

Merry Christmas!

Dec. 24th, 2025 11:20 am
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I've eaten a lot of sweets already since my holiday started. I tried a viral porridge at the Christmas market (it had miso fudge, cranberries, cardamom, and apples, super yummy!). I also went to a Korean style cafe i previously visited for Enhypen anniversary event. This time i got a carrot cake latte and a matcha cookie. I baked pistachio cookies which turned out great even though i haven't baked in 5 years! I also started a tea collection again, got some jasmine peach tea and chai.

For the first time I'm celebrating in my own way instead of just being nostalgic about the family Christmas of childhood. I'm making my own traditions. I donated to Doctors Without Borders helping the humanitarian crisis in DRC

Wishing everyone peace, love, and joy this holiday season 💖

more kpop christmas songs )



No Way Back

Dec. 24th, 2025 01:08 am
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i carry my sins, my rags, my endless steps in the desert
away from the heart of the cities
you absence beating
forgive me, forget me, forgive me, forget me

when the North Star guided me 
i did not fear God's judgement
but that of people
for they do not forgive sinners
and so i must vanish

my brothers and I on an everlasting flight from mankind
in the cave of shadows
crystals welcomed us
in the luminescence of my visions
you were not afraid of 
the hidden gifts of the underworld 





THE SIN: VANISH


unlocking superpowers

Dec. 23rd, 2025 09:28 pm
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Irene's "Like A Flower" was my comfort album last December, truly a beautiful album<3


New BL from last week:


Burnout Syndrome EP. 4

I love the shifting power dynamics in this series. The muse is also the boss. Koh shows his vulnerable side more and more to Jira, who is inspired by him and feels sexual attraction towards him. He sees Koh like fans are fascinated with handsome morally ambiguous characters. The series also posed an interesting question about the difference between work and desire - and can they be the same thing? That is what is happening currently in the relationship between Jira and Koh. Another interesting thing is that in their relationships they kind of switch the roles they have in society - Jira plays Koh in his work and Koh keeps himself home and dwells in his memories and angst. They constantly challenge each other. Also, the significance of art and human emotion are important parts of the story, something foreign to Koh but a key to his character's liberation. 


Heated Rivalry EP. 5


I loved this episode, it was very emotional and hopeful. I was pleasantly surprised that this series wasn't just a steamy romance but it also deals with homophobia, and family and career pressures. Shane and Ilya are such likeable characters, they're so different from each other and their dialogue always keeps me hooked. I loved the ending of this episode!

dua lipa discography rate

Dec. 1st, 2025 05:01 pm
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last updated: december 2025
 
dua lipa (2017, album) 3.5/5 
• genesis 3.5
• lost in your light 3.5
• hotter than hell 4.5
• be the one 3.5
• idgaf 3.5
• blow your mind (mwah) 4
• garden 3
• no goodbyes 3
• thinking 'bout you 3
• new rules 4
• begging 3
• homesick 3
 
bonus tracks
• dreams 3
• room for 2 3.5
• new love 3
• bad together 3
• last dance 3
• want to 3.5
• running 3
• kiss and make up (with blackpink) 3.5
• one kiss (with calvin harris) 3.5
• electricity (with silk city) 3
• scared to be lonely (with martin garrix) 3.5
• no lie (with sean paul) 3.5
• new rules (live) n/a

future nostalgia (2020, album) 3/5
• future nostalgia 3
• don't start now 3.5
• cool 3
• physical 3
• levitating 3.5
• pretty please 3
• hallucinate 3
• love again 3.5
• break my heart 3
• good in bed 3
• boys will be boys 2.5

bonus tracks
• fever (ft. angèle) 3
• we're good 3
• prisoner (with miley cyrus) 3
• if it ain't me 3
• that kind of woman 3.5
• not my problem (ft. jid) 3
• levitating (ft. dababy) n/a
• un día (one day) (with j balvin, bad bunny and tainy) 3

radical optimism (2024, album) 3/5
• end of an era 3
• houdini 3.5
• training season 3.5
• these walls 3.5
• whatcha doing 3
• french exit 3
• illusion 3
• falling forever 3.5
• anything for love 3
• maria 3
• happy for you 3.5


 
osts
• dance the night (2023) 3.5/5



album ranking
🥇 dua lipa (2017)
🥈 radical optimism (2024)
🥉 future nostalgia (2020)
 
favourite songs
🥇 hotter than hell
🥈 blow your mind (mwah), new rules

More K-pop Christmas music!

Dec. 20th, 2025 10:45 pm
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NMIXX released a video containing both a holiday version of "Blue Valentine" (the same tune and lyrics, but with holiday-style backing music) and a rerecording of "Funky Glitter Christmas." Enjoy!

A couple of fun things to watch for:

  1. At about 1:38, Sullyoon comes out of a doll box, which is fun because people often say Sullyoon looks like a doll.
  2. At about 1:45, the toys have Lily tied to the floor, a la Gulliver's Travels.
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Platform: Sega CD

Ooohh yeah baby, totally hip hints, p-p-phat visuals and a slammin’ soundtrack right here to Make My Video! HAHAHA! More like phat-ass visuals which y’can EAT big time! Are you one of those epileptic chumps or one of those lame frumpwusses that don’t enjoy music?! Well, look away from this totally ludicrously fire video! For COOL KIDS ONLY!

Man, I dunno how to make engagin’ hooks, okay? But I make a good 90s cool impression, don't I?
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Anyways! Make My Video. It fuckin’ sucks!

Rating: I NEED A SECOND out of 10.

End of review.

🌙

Dec. 19th, 2025 08:52 pm
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Moontime began today. So I know now how to calculate my cycle. (The previous two months, it started on the 18th because October has 31 days. This month it started on the 19th because November has 30 days.) Seed cycling has helped regularise it.

I used the herbal sanitary pads and my cramps did reduce; they lasted a shorter time than usual! The pads also feel more like cotton cloth than pads, by far the most comfortable I've been.

So relieved these exist. But also, I wish I had them when I was a schoolgirl.

The Friday FIve for 19 December 2025

Dec. 18th, 2025 07:44 pm
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1. What is one thing about you that you hate?

2. What is one thing about you that you love?

3. If you had to change one thing about you what would it be and why?

4. What is one word that you would use to define yourself?

5. Imagine what you would look like in a perfect world...what do you look like?

Copy and paste to your own journal, then reply to this post with a link to your answers. If your journal is private or friends-only, you can post your full answers in the comments below.

If you'd like to suggest questions for a future Friday Five, then do so on DreamWidth or LiveJournal. Old sets that were used have been deleted, so we encourage you to suggest some more!

Christmas music

Dec. 18th, 2025 04:51 pm
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  1. Last night I discovered that Kiiras had released a Christmas song, called "Kiirasmas." I don't think I'd objectively say it's a good song, but it's still fun to listen to.

  2. A few years ago, I did a K-pop Christmas song Advent calendar. This morning, as I added "Kiirasmas" to my K-pop Christmas playlist, I realized that if I wanted to post the whole playlist one song a day, I'd have had to start back on October 15! ^^

  3. After having to spend 40 minutes listening to the store playing Christmas music while I waited for the pharmacy to fill a prescription. I'd like to say: No matter how Christmas-adjacent some of its lyrics may be, "My Favorite Things" is not a Christmas song. I'm willing to get seriously injured on this hill. However, if it means that I'll hear "The Christmas Song" less often, I'm willing to act like it's a Christmas song.

104 ☆

Dec. 17th, 2025 07:01 pm
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I am so behind on my reading roundup but finally here are my September and October reads! As soon as I finish this it's going to be time for the last two months of books lol.



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My Most Reread Fics of 2025

Dec. 17th, 2025 10:47 am
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I had another slow year both for new fics and rereads, but here's some of the fics I returned to most often in 2025:Read more... )

The price of postage

Dec. 17th, 2025 12:13 pm
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When I order things from Japan and Korea, my goal for managing postage costs is to have the postage cost less than the item, which I'm usually able to manage. Recently one of my friends sent me a package from within the US, for which the postage cost 3x the cost of the item!

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Reader, lemme tell ya what’s shakin’ with me. I’m a weird alien in the shape of a very cute woman, but by god I don’t know ANYTHING ‘bout the dating scene. Shit’s confusin’ to me, pal. As a creature that needs direct input I don’t thrive too well in that space. I always thought, though, that most of the folks around me had a better time with the whole thing! Maybe not in modern times (god knows I’ve seen lotsa people jabber about how they suck at it) but I thought that maybe in the old days there were more coherent interactions, smarter conversations, knew the do’s and don’ts of datin–.



Fuck no.

In the ancient times of the 1980’s the world of romance didn’t strike any different colors than it does now, from what I can catch. The tinders and grindrs of the world in our modern times are just a natural evolution of what once was Youtube, eHarmony and the geriatric Match dot com. When the ‘net was not a common item ‘round the working class houses of America, there was the mythical (and almost pitiful) world of dating tapes.
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Top 25 K-pop songs of 2025!

Dec. 14th, 2025 03:18 pm
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NME (which seems have a much better of understanding on K-pop than Rolling Stone) has released a list of the [top 25 K-pop songs of 2025]! I scrolled to it, sure that I would have forgotten a lot of songs from earlier in the year, and was pleasantly surprised to see there were some I hadn't heard before, so it was like an early birthday present from NME!

I was also looking to see if NMIXX made the list — I've loved their new songs, and I was hoping that other people appreciated them. I was happy to see NMIXX's "High Horse" ranked #7 — four places higher than Blackpink's "Jump" (which I thought was highly overrated and wouldn't have ranked so high had it been by someone other than Blackpink). I then kept scrolling and was pleased and surprised to see H1-Key's "Summer Was You" ranked #6. Then I kept scrolling and was absolutely gobsmacked to see Huntr/x's "Golden" ranked #2 — I expected it to take the top spot, and was extremely surprised to find it in #2! So what was #1? I had absolutely no idea. I scrolled and was surprised and overjoyed to find NMIXX's "Spinnin' on It" at #1!

A silly musin'!

Dec. 13th, 2025 09:57 pm
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I was just musin' to myself and I realized how fascinatin' it is to scope out people's journals and just, read their day to day life for a brief moment. What diverse life and what a reminder that people out there just keep on chuggin' on while you're sitting to rest, a lively world beyond your human understanding.

It's like walkin' around the neighborhood and looking at the houses, wonderin' how their life is on the inside, or how the house even looks like. How cold it feels, how the light hits, how to music bounces off the wall and what station the radio is on. Now on journal form, with more explicit details of a fun time, a bad day or just an interesting day...

A most stressful week...

Dec. 12th, 2025 09:24 pm
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This has been a super-stressful week. We had a somewhat lighter than usual round of medical appointments this week, but it was more than made up for by home repair appointments.

We had the garage door installation scheduled for Tuesday, which ended up not being completed that day, so the technician would have to come back Wednesday. Then Tuesday night I discovered that the basement drain was backing up whenever we used the washing machine, dishwasher, or kitchen sink, so I called the plumbing company for that, but they weren't able to send a plumber out until Friday afternoon.

Then Wednesday night, right after the garage door technician left, L. discovered that the washing machine was leaking (totally not related to the basement drain backing up). I tried to fix it, but ended up making it worse. So I had A. call an appliance repair service, who said they could send someone over Thursday morning.

Thursday morning the appliance repair technician came and fixed the dishwasher. Then I had to take A. to get allergy shots, then we went to Ricky's house, where I shoveled the 7-8 inches of snow we'd gotten over the previous two days. (He doesn't drive, but I had to shovel a path from the street to his door so Meals on Wheels could deliver and also to shovel his back stairs to he could let his dogs out.) I'm still sore from this.

Today I had a National Heritage Responders meeting (which went very well), then I had to wait for the plumber to arrive and fix the basement drain. We had originally had a noon to 3PM window for him to show up, which got pushed back to a 2:30PM to 4:30PM window and he ended up showing up at about 3:45PM.

All the house things have been successfully fixed, and we're planning to enjoy this weekend's cold weather from inside the house as much as possible. (It's -2°F out right now, and supposed to go down from here, then only to get as high as 0°F tomorrow, and not to get into actual positive temperatures until Sunday.) But anyway, that's why I've got a massive mental backlog of posts I want to make, and why I've got a folder in my email of comments from you that I want to respond to, and so forth. I hope you're all doing well.

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